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September 2nd, 2016 | Deeds Digest No. 15

Hello #ChangeMakers,

When’s the last time you wished for something, truly wished for something with your whole heart and without regard for whether your wish could bring it any closer to reality?

Lately, I’ve been thinking quite a lot about the importance of wishes. When I was younger – probably somewhere around your age – my wishes gave me the motivation to push through some pretty hard times. Honestly, sometimes, they felt like the most important thing that I had.

When I was a struggling and scared single mom, I had my wishes. And when I came home to find that my lights had been turned off because I couldn’t afford to pay the bill, I still had my wishes, even if I made them in the dark. Any chance to make a wish, and I was all over it! It’s 11:11, make a wish. One of my eyelashes had fallen on my cheek, take it between thumb and forefinger and make a wish. Blowing out birthday candles, make a wish. First star appears in the sky, make a wish. You name it, I was using it as a reason to make a wish.

Those wishes kept me going. They helped me set my sights on achieving goals and believing that there was a little bit of magic out there in the universe that was going to help make them a reality.

So, even though I’m 53 years old now, I’m going to spend some time this Labor Day weekend thinking hard about what I still wish for and set my sights on making sure those wishes come true. I’m going to think about all those men and women for whom Labor Day was named – the folks of the labor movement whose social and economic achievements we celebrate. Because of them, I have the luxury of wishing for better and knowing that my hopes for a better tomorrow can be realized.

What do you wish for, #ChangeMakers? I hope you’ll spend some time this weekend thinking about that, too. And remember, as long as you're wishing for something for yourself, make it good! Make it big! I have faith that you’ll work hard, and, accompanied by a little bit of magic from the universe, your wishes will come true.

xo,
- Wendy

This week’s #ChangeMaker is the brave, strong, and inspiring Chessy Prout. Two years after her harrowing attack as a 15-year-old high school student at St. Paul's School, Chessy is stepping forward to use her experience to help other rape survivors. Working with the non-profit organization Promoting Awareness Victim Empowerment (PAVE), Chessy is launching a new campaign I Have the Right To, in effort to shatter the silence around sexual assault as well as prevent sexual violence through social advocacy, education and survivor support. Click here to learn more about Chessy’s story. Thank you for your lending your voice to those who need it, Chessy! #IStandWithChessy #IHaveTheRightTo #DeedsNotWords #DeclareYourAmbition 

#ICYMI
It is past time that we stand-up for survivors of sexual assault. Here is a story I wrote for Cosmo about my experience in Texas on the failing of our justice system. 

Check out this funny video that addresses this serious question: Why can’t a woman be paid like a man? Make It Work Action


Seeing women at work teaches children to look beyond traditional gender roles and stereotypes. #EqualPayForEqualWork PopSugar Celebrity

After the Final5 posted pictures enjoying the beaches of Rio, trolls on Twitter criticized their athletic builds. Wait! These gorgeous women are gold medal Olympians and you’re a troll? #Final5 The Huffington Post

Dr. Leah Torres believes that women should have access to healthcare, and that’s why one Saturday a month – in addition to her full time job – she works at one of the only two clinics that provide abortions in the state of Utah. The Nation

Congratulations to California as lawmakers unanimously passed a bill that closes the legal loophole that allowed Brock Turner to escape serious prison time. Teen Vogue

The online attacks against Leslie Jones have moved past disparaging remarks to sexist and racist assaults criticizing her appearance, gender, and race. Brendesha Tynes, a USC professor who specializes in social media and cyberbullying, said in an interview that part of what was fueling the attacks against Ms. Jones was a “serious anti-black woman problem in the U.S.”  #IStandWithLeslie The New York Times

Starting slowly, poet and actor Steve Connell delivers a powerful testament to men as part of the YWCA’s violence prevention initiative. Bust

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